Miami Sugar Baby (FindASugarBaby.com)

September 2nd, 2010

miamiHey Daddies… I work from home and am available most anytime with just a little notice, day or night! I have a older model car so it would be nice if I could get my sugardaddie to show me how it works under the hood….That would help me with my transportation for fun, it’s a car most men would drool over! I could come see you, or you could come to the Miami area, your choice!…I will be available as many times a month as wanted, find me at the best sugar daddie site out there.

I love the beach, traveling, boating, dining out, red wine, great conversation, and of course, hanging out in the back seat of my car!

I’m Your Sugar Baby from California

September 2nd, 2010

CaliforniaHi sugar daddies! I know how to enjoy the world and want my sugardaddie to take me with him wherever he goes! I’m generous, sweet, loving, loyal, and caring. I am in accounting and teach aerobics part-time as hobby.

I live by wine country Temecula and love to fill my life with love, joy, fun, passion, and laughter. I love going out as well as staying at home doing romantic things with my special sugardaddie. I love to read and vacation at different places and most recent, my favorites are Rhode Island, Cabo, Hawaii, and Calistoga. I like all kinds of music but lately I like to listen to Sade. How about you?

Find me at my favorite sugardaddie site and see what I have to offer! What type of sugar babie do you like and what is your desire with her?

True Cost of a Sugar Baby

September 2nd, 2010

sugarbabysThe cost of a sugar babie depends on the generosity of a sugardaddie. Sugar babies can be both high and low maintenence. The cost of a sugar babie can also depend on what type of needs the sugar babies specifically have, for example: some sugar babies have expensive car payments that they may need help with, and other sugar babies just want to be wined and dined sometimes. You cannot just go around asking yourself, “well how much for a sugar babie?” it really doesn’t work like that. It just depends…For as many different men that exist in the world, the same can be said for the different types of sugar babies.

The cost of a sugar babie can also depend on what she can do for you. Depending on how she “loves” you. sugar babie love can come in many forms, time spent doing anything you want, travelling anywhere you want, giving you gifts, doing certain extracurricular activities especially for you…The list goes on…Some sugar babies can just be cool and hang out with you, they don’t cost as much. There’s no real hand book on how to be a sugar babie, so you are just going to have to ask for what you want, at whatever the cost! Teach them the ways and your sugar babie love will be exactly what she does best, eating out of your hands.

There are plenty of sugar babies on www.sugarsugar.com who are both new to the game and experienced! The actual cost of a sugar babie is something you decide.

New Sugar Babies Series Part 3

September 2nd, 2010

Hey sugar babies… Since we are still on the topic of newly dating sugar daddies, and I already requested that sugar daddies know what kind of sugardaddie they are, let’s explore the kind of sugar babie you are. And to all you sugar daddies out there, this information is for your benefit as well, enabling you to ask the right questions of your sugar babie!  That said, let’s get started…

When deciding what kind of a sugar babie you are, also think about whether or not these are genuinely your character traits… Also, you may find that in certain circumstances or arrangements, you are either a combination of a few different sugar babie types, or are acting out a specific type for that specific SD. Any way you go about it, alter-ego or not, here are some of the types of sugar babies out there, which one are you?

Innocently Naïve SB- The virgin of sugar babies, these are the good girls, the inexperienced, in need of spoiling and guidance. This type of SB is sought out by SD’s because they are most likely to be “trainable” and usually aren’t too manipulative. There is a little uncertainty residing with this SB as she may be just getting her feet wet, not knowing what she’s getting into or whether she’s staying.

Gold Digger SB- Gosh, don’t you just love that term? Popular hip-hop music presently reminds us of the negative connotations the so-called “gold diggers” have, but I don’t see the problem. These SB’s like the finer things in life, if you’ve got it, then she wants it. These refined SB’s are probably the most attractive SB’s overall, and they feel deserving of nothing less than the best. Either they’ve worked hard for their money and expect you to treat them better than they treat themselves, or they may be accustomed to a certain lifestyle from a previous marriage, but these SB’s are label whores (again, not a BAD quality).

Seeking Marriage SB- Not your one-night-stand kind of sugar babie, this SB wants you to ride in on a white horse (and be hung like one) to rescue her from her life. She wants to be taken care of and she wants true love. She wants the companion, best-friend, lover, and all the other things that sugar daddies may or may not cringe at, although usually the former. Some SD’s are looking for the same thing….just probably not in those words.

Business SB- This sugar babie has goals, independence, and seeks opportunity. She is not afraid to soak up whatever business advice sugar daddies have that got them to where they’re at. These SB’s are quick learners, sometimes manipulative, and are overall inspiring to be around because they are such sponges for your knowledge (when’s the last time YOU didn’t want to talk about yourself?).

Attached SB- Otherwise taken, this sugar babie needs something from her sugardaddie that she isn’t getting at home. This may be the most likely NSA arrangement as these SB’s usually want to stay in their relationships with their significant other. Sugar daddies and sugar babies have needs alike, so why not share a cab and get what you both want? This type of sugar babie does really well with a married SD as both parties understand the need for discretion well.

Figure out what type of sugar babie you are, make it known to pot SD’s in your profile, and let the pieces fall where they may…

I’m jus’ sayin’

SugarSugar.com

My Favorite Sugar Baby Washes My Hummer

September 2nd, 2010

mutuallybeneficialrelationship.netMy favorite sugar babie sought a seeking arrangment — our arrangement is that I take her shopping once in a while, and she washes my Hummer with barely anything on. I just bought a new convertible as part of our mutually beneficial agreement for my sugar babie. So now, I have her wash both of our Hummers every Sunday morning, and if I so choose, without any clothes at all. Sometimes I even offer for her to invite her friends over while she’s waxing the Hummers, she’s always down with it. Our relationship is based on mutual benefits and favors.

My girl and I met at a site called www.sugarsugar.com, where I always meet new sugar babies, it’s great for wealthy men of all ages! Millionaire dating can be difficult for most sugar babies to compete with each other. So I make sure to see how far they are willing to go in order to please their sugardaddie, and it includes a Hummer.

Rich benefactors are hard to come by, so I know that a sugardaddie dating site is where the sugar babies are going! I like seeing my favorite sugar babie at least three times a week, once is for the car wash. Our seeking arrangment works for us, no other sugar babie has taken care of my hummer so well, and no one but her sugardaddie has taken care of her better.

New Sugar Babies Series Part 2

September 1st, 2010

Okay sugar babies, you had almost a week to think about what you want out of sugardaddie dating. And if you have followed along, you would have read the follow-up blog for the sugar daddies, advising them to figure out what kind of sugardaddie they are. So…let’s say that some of these sugar daddies are the type they claim to be; that’ll make it easier on you, on him, on everyone for Christ sake.

Now back to you sugar babies… If you think you are ready to get out there and just start doing the sugardaddie dating thing online, you’ve got another thing coming. You can peruse, check things out, make a little contact, you know, small gestures like that. When it comes to meet and greets however, you could ease into that…if not, shoot, go for it, it’s your call! But all things considered, I need to talk to you about your profile.

Profiles

Your profile… Let’s talk about what will set you apart from all the other sugar babies out there. Let’s talk about blah versus Rah! (sorry, that was all I could come up with for a skeazy rhyme)

Many of you have asked me about bettering your profiles… and well, I think you should too. As it turns out, besides a great photo to catch the eye of a pot(potential) SD, the content of your profile accounts for the rest of why an SD would choose to contact you or not.

First of all, sugar babies and ladies, you could stand to be more positive and articulate when you choose your wording to lure sugar daddies into your lair.

For example, if your profile reads something like: “i needs a sugardaddie to buy me a car.dont have da means to get that surgery i want will do most anything like chillin.mother of 2 kids no time to waste”

Do I really need to tell you what’s wrong here…. First of all, use the fucking spell and grammar check that’s already built into your computer! My computer had a hell of a time letting me type that, and I wanted to do it on purpose, so let technology work for you, it will manage most spelling errors, punctuation, grammar, and run-on sentences (the least you could do is pretend you’re an intellect).. Secondly, desperation is not your friend.. Rarely do pot sugar daddies enjoy coming to the aid of a desperate woman, with 2 kids to boot; it just reeks of the type of swindling that lands you driving a lemon home from the used car lot. Also, while you may think it’s helpful to just come out and say what you need desperately, don’t… Sugar daddies give because they want to, and usually because they think you work hard and are deserving of some of the wealth they have. Sugar daddies will rarely read that profile and think, “well now there’s a sugar babie who works hard, takes care of business, and herself..therefore she deserves to be pampered by me.” To be honest, I’m sure that a pot sugardaddie first clicks on your profile if he is attracted to you, reads the first couple of words, and doesn’t even waste a thought on them. As sad as it is, we are on the World Wide Web, where all people have to show for themselves are their words, point blank. Black and white letters, orchestrated in such a way that pot SD’s either ponder them and want to contact you, or don’t even waste a brain cell to read the second word, or pseudo-word if you weren’t exactly grammatically correct.

So please check your profiles and their content, would you want to meet you? Remove yourself from the situation if you can, are you interesting enough that you would want to get to know you better? Did you include information about yourself that would intrigue you if you stumbled across your own profile? If you answered “no” to any of those questions, get on it sugar babies! You want a sugardaddie to take you seriously and respect you? At least take the bloody time to write a decent profile! Shit, rip off some quotes from historical political leaders or poets while you’re at it, anything to stand out will serve you well when sugar daddies are speed reading through profiles.

I’m jus’ sayin’

SugarSugar.com

“Cougars” are So Passe

August 28th, 2010

I’m sure everyone remembers when Demi Moore started dating Ashton Kutcher, Madonna had a “boy-toy”, and that somehow started a phenomenon in non-celebritydom where financially successful women sought out young and attractive (albeit penniless) men. Emerged from this hot-mess was a new female, the “Cougar”.

New reality shows launched, showcasing battles between the said “cougars” versus the “sugar babies”. Feminism was at an all-time high; women who are fiscally comfortable, have already been married with kids and divorced,  now wanted the cajones in relationships…. Really?…

Yeah, I’m going to have to call bull-shit on that one. Sugar babies are the closest thing to genetic perfection of what a woman should be.  I used to think that this was solely my opinion, but come to find out, our species as females have always been inclined to seek out the protector and provider.  Those men tended to be older, having more experience in actually knowing what it took to provide for their mates. Why would time change that innate need in us? What, because we can make more money, provide for our significant others and our children? Time doesn’t just change something like that.

It’s a façade when women stake the claim of not needing a man. Yeah, so what? Go ahead… Work your asses off for half the pay, grow old and wise, obtain 50 cats or more, see if I care– Those women die alone, the line ends with them, it’s survival of the fittest at it’s best.

I say, let those women be, in their quest to the top, not needing a man. Pfft! I need a man, want a man, and not just any man, the kind of man who can provide for me and my kin for generations to come! Isn’t that the very definition of sugardaddie dating? It’s innate, inherent, and likely that you cannot fight the urge to be a spoiled brat anyway, so why go against it? Date men who are older, more mature, and can provide for you and your entourage!

This “cougar” thing is not only passé as a trend, but it doesn’t even follow the species-wide need to feel safe and taken care of, you cannot always do that for yourself. The “cougar” lifestyle puts the younger man in the sugar babie role, allowing them to take advantage, ultimately becoming the weaker partner anyway…

I don’t want a frail or meek sugar babie(boy) for myself, I want a man to take control, grab the reigns, and have the cajones to say: “Come here baby…Now…I said NOW”

Then follow it with: “I got this for you….”

I’m Jus’ Sayin—

SugarSugar.com

What Kind of Sugar Daddy are You?

August 26th, 2010

So….Sugar daddies, I have a bone to pick with you.  You may not be new to the sugardaddie dating world, but a lot of these sugar babies are. And to be able to get what you want out of your experience with these women, you’ve got to be more specific on what you are looking for. There seems to be a level of misunderstanding and guidance when sugar babies are constantly telling me that there is no one out there for them or that they are finding it hard to get noticed (and don’t you worry, I’m working with them on that as well)…

But let’s be clear about one thing, you are on this site for a reason, and I am here to shed some light on that reason for all sugar babies to see so that there is less “How do I do this?”

Instead of the usual information that you may be giving on your profile like: NSA, want to just play, contact for more details and we’ll see…etc, maybe I can direct you a little more on what kind of sugardaddie you are, so that these girls get a better understanding of what to expect. Don’t you think that will make it easier for all involved? I mean, maybe if sugar babies knew what type of sugardaddie you are, then they might have a better sense of how to act, what to do for you, how much time you’ll want to spend, and so on…

When I ask sugar babies to screen sugar daddies, it’s to help them figure out what kind of sugar babie they want to be for someone, thereby making the arrangement more mutually beneficial. I know these are pretty broad, but just to start, I have come up with a few basic types of sugar daddies, what type are you?

  • “Casual” sugar daddies occasionally see their sugar babie, or babies (these daddies sometimes have more than one sugar babie to spoil) to nice dinners, as arm candy to events, the occasional shopping excursion, or a small allowance. It is by definition, the most NSA relationship of the bunch.
  • “Active” sugar daddies may whisk their sugar babies off on trips or excursions at the drop of a hat. They like to be physically active and spontaneous with their sugar babies. This type of sugardaddie needs a sugar babie who is always available and youthful, so they can keep up and be able to do anything, anytime.
  • “Exclusive” sugar daddies know what they want for their future and are more open to  having a long term arrangement or relationship. This sugardaddie may be done playing games and looking to reap the benefits of a commitment down the line. They certainly have the means to take care of their sugar babie (usually a one-sugar babie man), but they would prefer not to just throw money around in the short-term.

Sugar babies, I’ll address these later with you, but Daddies, I hope this may help clarify what some sugar babies are looking for. And what you are as a sugardaddie will help you get what you want… I’m jus’ sayin

SugarSugar.com

New Sugar Baby Students, Listen Up!

August 21st, 2010

Listen up all you new sugar babies! The concensus is that you need help getting started, and I am just the girl for you…. I have been a sugar babie for quite a while, and I know what pot SD’s need… <img class="alignright size-full wp-image-416" title="one-sugar-daddy" src="http://www.sugarsugar.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/one-sugar-daddy.jpg" alt="sugardaddie present” width=”350″ height=”233″ />

Okay… Let’s just start from the beginning, what do you want? Now don’t jump the gun and start rattling off all of the “things” you want, not yet..We are not there yet… What do you want to get out of the experience of dating a sugardaddie?

sugardaddie dating can mean different things to everyone, but I don’t care about everyone, I care about you… So, are you a sugar babie that is married or in a relationship and you just want to play a little on the side, get what you’re not gettin at home? OR…Maybe you are a single mom with not a lot of free time to do the traditional “dating” thing and go on formal dates? OR… you might be the type of sugar babie who wants a long term sugardaddie, who wishes to ride into the sunset…under the rainbow…with all the diamonds in the world on your fingers… Which ever type of sugar babie you are or want to be, MAKE IT KNOWN…..

That is the very first thing that you need to do sugar babies; have a sit-down with yourself and figure it out. If you “don’t know” what it is that you want, then you may not be that successful at sugardaddie dating. Actually, any kind of dating for that matter..if you don’t know what you want, then you won’t find what you need, because who knows what you’re looking for?

Let’s not make this some sort of convoluted querry. I am asking you a solid question and I will not move ahead to the rest of the story until you figure it out.

Listen, I cannot actually help you new sugar babies unless you want to help yourself.. I cannot go out on your dates for you (Nor do you want me to, because the SD’s love me) I cannot literally hold your hand and lead through the process of sugardaddie dating.. It doesn’t work like that.

I am here to help…and we will move on to more new sugar babie how to’s once you marinade in what kind of sugar babie you are….alright? Fine… I’m jus sayin

SugarSugar.com

Not Wanting a “Pay per Play” Arrangement

August 17th, 2010

As a SD, I have read way too many blogs here about  “Pay per Play” arrangements between sugar daddies and sugar babies.  When it comes to me and my other SD friends, who are also wealthy men and have worked really hard for their money, it is not that type of relationship that they are seeking. Although wanting discretion, because some of us are married, we don’t want to date prostitutes, period.

I have been on a few other sugardaddie dating sites and have not found one that embodies exactly what I’m looking for.  I have met a few different girls here and there from some of the sugardaddie sites, and overall, what I have found is that no one really knows what they are looking for, honestly. I know what I want, and these sugar babies lack knowing what it is they want out of this.

Now, I don’t mind meeting a sugar babie who’s new to the game, but I just want to know if they are, in-fact, a newbie.  I’m not a free ride, I have wants and needs just like anyone else, and I really don’t want to be taken advantage of.  I don’t want to be asked for money when I meet a potential sugar babie for the first time, I really just want to get to know her, see if we are even compatible to begin with. Then we can talk arrangement.  This notion of when to ask for money from your sugardaddie should be answered by the fact of having real wants and needs, and being comfortable enough with yourself and your sugardaddie to ask them of him nicely.

I take care of my sugar babies because I don’t want to see them struggling, the mutually beneficial part of our relationship is that while I can help them out of some financial trouble, they can be company to me when I need to go out of town for business and want to show someone a place they haven’t been before. I really like being able to give that gift of showing someone the world, so to speak. I’m a knight in shining armor, I’m romantic, affectionate, and like a boyfriend or husband.  Except I’m the guy you want to spend your time with, not the guy you have to spend your time with. That’s how these types of relationships should work, right?

-Anonymous

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